Your Monthly Money Journey
A Parting Gift Over the past year,
you have begun a journey to discover your spiritual relationship to
money. Regardless of where your dreams take you, I hope you have
developed a new and deep appreciation for your history, your
resources, your power and your faith.
I want to offer you the
Spiritual Money Journey notes below. You might want to post them in
a place where you can refer to them often as you continue your money
journey. These note can encourage you, remind you of your goals, and
keep you in touch with the reasons why you embarked on your money
journey in the first place. (Click
here for a printable version.)
Remember: Every
possibility is open to you!
My Spiritual Money Journey
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To see money as one of the gifts in my life.
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To recognize the difference between my needs and my
wants.
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To stay clear about my "response-ability" in
relation to the money I have earned, inherited or been given.
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To pray and reflect on what I truly want to do with
that money.
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To clarify how I will share, use, save, invest or
spend that money wisely.
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To base my financial decisions on my inner voice,
rather than a message from the past.
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To be aware of whose agenda I am following: mine,
someone else's, or God's.
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To view my use of money in the context of my whole
life, keeping my financial transactions in alignment with my
spiritual values.
For more help on your money journey, we invite you to
read Rosemary Williams's book, A Woman's Book of Money &
Spiritual Vision. The book is featured on our
website, with links to booksellers and the publisher.
Want to share your money journey with others?
We recommend forming a group of 12 to 15 members, and
meeting for 6 or 7 sessions. To help you create a productive and
enjoyable experience, we offer materials to assist group leaders.
Email us for study group details
Links on Alternative Giving
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Welcome to our November/December newsletter on money and
spirit, which offers ideas for aligning your holiday giving
with your deepest values.
As the year draws to a close, we thank you for
participating with Women's Perspective in finding new ways to
connect our financial lives with our spirits. We wish you
great joys this holiday season as well as peace and renewal in
the coming year.
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| Alternative Holiday Giving
Ideas |
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Left: Alternative Gift Market at Rosary Church in
Idaho Falls.
Little Abbey asked her
grandmother, "Do you celebrate Christmas or Hanukkah?"
Dr. Goldye Meyer responded that she observes Hanukkah.
"We do both!" exclaimed her granddaughter.
Like
this family, you may celebrate this season with a
variety of traditions, including the giving of gifts. If
you are thinking about ways to transform your holidays
from a stressful and expensive experience to a joyful
and spiritual awakening, you are not alone. Many people
have been developing new approaches, and here are a few
examples.
An article in the New York Times recently featured a
"religiously hybrid family" that celebrates the season
with Hanukkah lights, a Christmas tree, and a family
ritual of charitable giving. The family sets aside one
evening to review together a wide variety of
solicitations, and each child gets to donate $100 to one
or more organizations. Click
here for the full story.
Another gift idea is to make a donation in the
recipient's honor. Look around for an Alternative
Gift Market. Booths provide games in order to
showcase gift ideas, such as the "fishing booth" where
kids can try their hand and parents can donate to raise
funds to help establish fish farming in Cambodia (and
get a packet of material to wrap up for Uncle Joe to
tell him about the gift in his honor). Llama rides are
provided to promote donations to purchase alpacas for
Peruvian families. Every year more and more community
organizations and spiritual communities are sponsoring
alternative gift markets.
If you can't find a market near you, go online. Here
is a sampling of ways to honor the people you love:
- Have fruit trees planted in a village in a
developing country through Trees
of Life.
- Send food baskets filled with hand-made cheeses
and local organic products (check your organic food
market.)
- Buy gifts produced by women in developing
economies through organizations like Mayaworks
and Aid
to Artisans.
- Provide a secure source of food to an impoverished
family by donating to Heiffer
International.
- Fight deforestation in Kenya by planting a tree
through the Green
Belt Movement.
The Sioux City, Iowa-based Alternatives
for Simple Living encourages churches and families
to simplify their holiday celebration by cutting
consumerism and focusing on the religious significance
of Christmas. Their Christmas campaign resources are
geared for 25 different denominations and include
ceremonies, an Advent calendar with daily thoughts and
actions, and suggestions for remembering the needy, such
as an Alternative Giving Card used to honor people
through gifts to charity.
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| Books to Give & Receive
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A String and a Prayer by Eleanor
Wiley and Maggie Oman Shannon
Eleanor Wiley, a
former speech pathologist and gerontologist, began
making jewelry about seven years ago. Nearing age 60 she
faced a vocational and spiritual crisis and began making
prayer beads. A fossil ivory "Goddess of Transformation"
came her way and her first set of prayer beads was born.
She teaches workshops on making prayer beads as a
spiritual practice all over the world. Maggie Oman
Shannon is the author of The Way We Pray and
editor of Prayers for Common Healing. A prolific
author, she is the founder of The
New Story, an online salon of creative resources and
spiritual tools for living to one's deepest purpose.
Crones Don't Whine: Concentrated Wisdom for
Juicy Women by Jean Shinoda Bolen
A
new perspective on the word, "crone." The books offers
13 defining crone qualities that, when taken to heart
and cultivated, support authenticity, integrity and soul
growth. Also: "Exceptional Men Can Be Crones," "Crones
Together Can Change the World," and "Musings."
The Spiral Staircase: My Climb Out of
Darkness by Karen Armstrong
The moving
story of the author's own search for God by the
highly-acclaimed author of the bestselling A History
of God; The Battle for God; and Islam, a Short
History. Powerfully engaging, often-heart-breaking,
but lit with bursts of humor, The Spiral
Staircase is an extraordinary history of self.
The Soul of Money by Lynne Twist
with Teresa Barker
This compelling and
fundamentally liberating book shows that examining our
attitudes toward money -- earning it, spending it, and
giving it away -- can offer surprising insight into our
lives, our values and the essence of prosperity. Through
moving stories and practical principles, Lynne Twist
demonstrates how to replace feelings of scarcity, guilt
and burden with experiences of sufficiency, freedom and
purpose.
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| Money & Spirit Events &
Workshops |
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Left: "Ethiopian Madonna," a banner created by
artist Lydia Ruyle (far right in the
photo).
As we send you this newsletter, a
delegation from Women's Perspective is meeting and
working with women in Kenya. In addition to attending
the International HIV/AIDS Conference, we will also meet
with Mama
Na Dada, an organization that supports African girls
with health and education services. To help us greet the
women we meet in Kenya, Lyd
ia Ruyle is sending six of her fabulous banners that
depict icons of the sacred feminine.
Transformational Education Women's
Perspective invites you to explore new ways to align
your financial life with your core values. We offer
transformational travel opportunities, such as our trip
to Kenya, and we provide workshops on money and
spirituality.
Just Scheduled in Westport, CT! Dec. 9,
6:30-8:30 pm; Connecting Your Pocketbook to Your
Soul: A Spiritual Approach to Making Your Financial
Decisions; talk by Rosemary Williams sponsored by
the Barnard Alumnae of Connecticut; Westport Library,
Westport, CT, 2nd Floor Seminar Room. $5 contribution to
refreshments. RSVP: Joanne Kabak, 203-454-0046 or clarity@optonline.
net.
St.
Pete Beach, FL: Nov. 30 - Dec. 3; Faith &
Money: Breaking the Silence, Ecumenical Stewardship
Center's 2004 Leadership Seminar.
Tucson,
AZ: Jan. 13-16, 2005; workshop on Money
& Spirit, offered during the Social Justice
Biennial Conference of the Presbyterian Health,
Education & Welfare Association (PHEWA).
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| Support Women's Perspective
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Women's Perspective has received a $5,000 matching
grant from a generous benefactor, who will match your
donation. As a result, your gift will have twice the
power to provide transformational education for women
seeking to align their financial lives with their
spiritual values.
Please consider making a donation today; your
contribution is fully tax-deductible. Click
here for donor information.
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| Thank You for Making 2005 Another
Great Year for WP |
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As this year draws to a close, we want to express our
heartfelt appreciation to all of you for helping Women's
Perspective help others to connect their financial lives
with their core values:
- To our volunteers: Thank you for your creativity
and hard work on money and spirit programs and events.
- To our financial contributors: Thank you for
making it possible to extend our services to
disadvantaged women in the US and in the developing
world.
- To our board members: Thank you for your
leadership, wise counsel and mutual support.
- To our host organizations: Thank you for making
your facilities available for our events and
workshops.
- To our sister nonprofit organizations: Thank you
for your encouragement and expertise as we grow.
- To those who attend our workshops and use our
materials: Thank you for participating in this
adventure so fearlessly and for giving us your honest
and helpful feedback.
- To women everywhere: Thank you for the love and
courage that you bring to the work of aligning your
financial lives with your spiritual values.
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| Ashley Ferranti Interns at
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Left: Intern Ashley Ferranti poses with a young
boy at an orphanage in the countryside of Xi'an,
China.
This fall WP welcomed Ashley Ferranti as a student
intern from Fairfield University, where she is studying
Chinese language and theology. Ashley is also minoring
in women's studies and is the founder of the Women's
Circle at the university. She hopes to pursue a career
working with women's issues, so interning with WP is a
great fit for her.
Ashley is a member of Gather the Women. She attended
GTW's Congress this year in Dallas, and she is now
starting a related organization called Gather the Girls.
Ashley had this to say about her intership:
"I absolutely love my intership with Women's
Perspective, especially as I'm so interested in
women's issues, spirituality and religion. When I
heard about WP, I read Rosemary's book and I
immediately became interested and curious. I believe I
can contribute a lot to Women's Perspective by doing
research on the the way different religions treat
money.
As a world traveler, Ashley is interested in WP's
work in Kenya and hopes to be able to participate in
those relationships at some point.
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| Meet WP Intern, Alysondra Duke
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Left: Alysondra Duke, intern this year at Women's
Perspective.
Women's Perspective is pleased to welcome Alysondra
Duke as our "distance intern." She will work on research
projects for WP while she is a student on campus at
Minnesota State University, Mankato, where she is a
graduate student in women's studies. Alysondra shared
these thoughts about interning for WP:
"Until the moment I met Rosemary Williams, I never
realized there was peace to be made, as women, with
our financial lives. Because finances and spirituality
are very important issues to us all, it is easy to
feel passionate about the intersectionality of the
two. I see a struggle within many women to make
finances a more positive and rewarding experience. My
time spent in both the workplace and academia has
taught me an important lesson: There is not adequate
financial education for women and girls, and it is
time to make a change.
My academic history
circles about issues pertaining to women and girls.
Women's Perspective offers a myriad of interesting
opportunities and points of view that I cannot wait to
better familiarize myself with. I think this work is
important and I very much want to be a part of it.
There is something beautiful that emerges from helping
one another to become more comfortable in this life. I
welcome this opportunity to be a Women's Perspective
intern with open arms!"
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