December 2005 Connecting your pocketbook to your soul
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JOURNALING QUESTIONS

 

Finding Peace, Joy and Gratitude in December
The December holidays can heighten anxiety about money and gift giving. We invite you to respond to these questions in your personal journal on money and spirituality:
 

  • When I look back over 2005, what were the big surprises?

  • How was holiday spending managed when I was growing up?

  • Do I still follow that pattern or do I spend differently?

  • Would I like to try alternative giving, such as donations to charity in place of traditional gifts?

  • Do I bring my family into discussions about gift giving and charitable donations?

  • What gift can I give myself or others that will not cost a cent?

  • What is my top priority in celebrating the December holidays?

If you wish to share your reflections with our readers, please email us.

Great Gift Idea

A Woman's Book of Money and Spirituality by Rosemary Williams has been reissued with updates and a wealth of new information. It's the perfect gift for yourself or someone you love. Published by Inner Ocean, it's available at booksellers or you can order from us.

WORKSHOPS & EVENTS

Fairfield, CT: January 12, 2006; Interfaith Luncheon; First Congregational Church; email us for details.

Arlington, TX: February 2006; Book group is forming to study the new edition of A Woman's Book of Money & Spirituality by Rosemary Williams. Details.

 

Bonita Springs, FL: February 9, 2006; Money & Spiritual Vision, workshop led by Goldye Meyer, Ph.D. and Rosemary Williams; Vasari Country Club; contact Goldye Meyer, 239-597-4071.

 

Fairfield, CT: March 9, 2006; An Urgent Message from Mother, a workshop with Jean Shinoda Bolen; email us for details.

 

Washington, DC: March 25, 2006; Women's Perspective 5th Anniversary Workshop and Celebration, Festival Center. Email us for information.

 

New York, NY: May 9, 2006; Women, Money & Spirituality; Marble Collegiate Church, 1 West 29th St; contact Elizabeth Testa, 212-687-2770 or etesta@marbl echurch.org

 

Louisville, KY: July 7-11, 2006; Money: Spiritual Vision, Spiritual Power; workshop at Presbyterian Women Churchwide Gathering 2006; call 231-223-7159.

 

Darien, CT: October 13, 2006; Women & Power: Leading & Living on Purpose; workshop led by Ann Fudge, Pat Francek and Rosemary Williams; St. Birgitta's Retreat Center; email us.

 

Westfield, MA: October 21, 2006; Connecting Your Wallet to Your Soul, Genesis Spiritual Life Center. Contact 413-562-3627.

Bring a Money & Spirituality Workshop to your group! Email us with your ideas and needs.

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Transformational International Travel

 

Women's Perspective will lead a trip to Kenya in November 25 - December 6, 2006 to attend the International HIV/AIDS Widows Conference. For information, call 203-336- 2238 or email us.

 

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Message from Rosemary Williams
As the year draws to a close, I want to express my deep gratitude to all of you, our readers, members, facilitators, volunteers, friends and donors for creating the organization we have become. It is truly an act of “calling forth the new creation.” In March we will celebrate our fifth anniversary. Please join us in Washington, DC at the Festival Center for a day of inspiration.

Did you know “The data shows that, across sectors, 66% of new establishments were still in existence two years after their birth and 44% were still in existence four years after.” We are in an even smaller number at five years. (Source: Monthly Labor Review, May 2005) This is truly a cause for celebration.

Next month we will acknowledge our donors in order to give thanks publicly for their support. The Women’s Perspective board, staff and volunteers wish you all much joy at this special season of the year.


 
Listening to One's Intuition: Donna MacDonald Responds to Hurricane Katrina

Photo right: Donna MacDonald, taking a break from her work in Mississippi.

 

Exhausting. Draining. Moving. Helpless. Empowered. Dignity. A gift.

These are words that psychotherapist Donna MacDonald uses to describe her three weeks as a Red Cross volunteer following Hurricane Katrina.

Donna and her husband moved from the Boston area to Bonita Springs, Florida, for a well-earned retirement. But she had an intuition that her experience in psychotherapy and community mental health could be useful in new and surprising ways, so she qualified as a disaster mental health worker for the Red Cross.

Donna concentrated on her part-time psychotherapy practice for some time before she received the call to serve. Once Katrina hit, Donna’s local Red Cross chapter asked her to go to Laurel, Mississippi. Although Laurel is 90 miles inland from the Gulf of Mexico, it was devastated by more than 60 tornados caused by the hurricane.

Donna’s volunteer group brought food and water supplies and bunked in sleeping bags at a Methodist church, where local volunteers took care of them by feeding them and doing their laundry. "Women from the church left us notes addressed to our Red Cross angels,” said Donna.

Disaster mental health involves helping screen and support people through trauma. “Only about 10% of my work was actually mental health,” says Donna, “the rest was meeting basic needs for emergency assistance. I was also intervening with local volunteers, who were facing things they had never faced before.”


 
Africa Update: Fairfield, CT Students Correspond with Kisumu, Kenya Students

Photo left: Teacher Eve Sher with students at Fairfield Woods Middle School in Fairfield, Connecticut, who are corresponding with African village children.

"The letters are here! The letters are here!" exclaimed excited middle school students.

This fall, with the help of global-minded teacher Eve Sher, Women’s Perspective brought letters, books and school supplies from Fairfield Woods Middle School to school students in Kisumu, Kenya. We returned to the US with letters and photos from Africa children, who were delighted with the new relationship.

This exchange is part of WP's project to connect women and children in the U.S. with their counterparts in African villages. (See photo of women correspondents.) The initiative hopes to foster ongoing personal relationships in which participants realize their hopes for a peek into each others’ worlds. To participate, please email us.

 

 
Book Review: Choose Peace & Happiness
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Author: Susyn Reeve
Publisher: Red Wheel

If we don’t - each and every one of us - choose peace and happiness for our own lives, who will?

Peace - and how to get it - is crucial just now, and likely to remain so. Yet, in spite of these turbulent, anxious times, anyone can choose to experience lasting peace and happiness every day.

Susyn Reeve began Choose Peace & Happiness as a result of a workshop she developed and taught for Mount Sinai-NYU Health, a large medical center in New York City, in the aftermath of September 11. Then she formed a virtual Peace & Happiness group of people who read the material and shared their experiences and responses via email.

Based on Mahatma Gandhi’s eternal philosophy, “Be the change you wish to see in the world,” Choose Peace & Happiness offers readers weekly practices, ideas, and suggestions for how they can become happier and more peaceful as individuals and in groups. It helps readers change their thinking and actions to bring about inner peace, as well as find happiness within and without, for themselves and the communities they live in.

Choose Peace & Happiness is a year-long journey with 52 topics, which include “Be Grateful,” “Use the Creative Power of Your Word,” and “Live Abundantly.” Each topic forms a chapter with seven days of readings, techniques, and activities. On Day 7, readers write their reflections on the week in their personal journals. Reeve gently helps readers let go of old habits and new fears to break through resistance into an ever-deepening experience of peace and happiness.

 

 
WP Wish List
 

We are deeply grateful to those who fulfill our wish list by contributing time, talent and funding to Women's Perspective. Thank you very much!

Currently we are seeking volunteers to help us with several "divine assignments" -

 

  • Volunteers to organize an evening event on March 9, 2006 in Fairfield, CT with Jean Shinoda Bolen, including a dinner and talk.
  • Introductions to foundations that fund capacity building and operating expenses.
  • Volunteers with fundraising experience (proposal writing and event planning).
  • We always need airline frequent flyer miles.

 

If you can help, please call 203-336-2238 or email us.

To learn about other ways you can help Women's Perspective fulfill its mission to help women connect their financial lives with their deepest values, see our recent solicitation letter.

 

 
A Reminder
 

December 31, 2005, marks the end of a temporary window to take advantage of special federal tax incentives for charitable giving, which were enacted following Hurricane Katrina.

Please discuss the impact of these temporary tax provisions with your tax advisor:

Normally, an individual cannot take a deduction for charitable contributions that exceed 50% of the individual's contribution base (generally, the individual's adjusted gross income). This limit will not apply to qualified cash contributions made to charitable organizations during the period August 28 through December 31, 2005. During that period, the general limitation on itemized deductions will also not apply to qualified charitable contributions.

 

 
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